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Greetings
I am 32 years old. I have been married for 8 years and have a six year old daughter and a 16 month old son. I work in the airline industry and at times am in command of 400+ employees. I control if they can leave work early, if they are granted voluntary overtime, and even mandatory overtime (requiring them to stay without consent). For a long time now, I have run a major operation, yet my home life it was the opposite. Resentments arose from both myself (being told what to do on a consistent basis) and my wife (seeing that she got the short end of the deal). Our relationship got very difficult and finally my wife got an idea. At first, I told myself that I didn’t want to be the boss at work and at home. I needed to turn off being commanding, but we started to try and read (tons of things that didn’t pertain to our overall life situation). A few times I dabbled in being dominant and she really tried being my sub, but old habits die hard. And finally a horrible situation occurred, my mother-in-law unexpectedly died at age of 55. At that moment, my entire wife’s family was in lost not knowing what to do. A fire instantly began to burn inside of me. I took control of the entire situation, I sat my wife’s siblings and step father down and told them what was going to be done.
That was two weeks ago. Now I have found this community and am ready to get ideas, ask questions, and learn as much as possible to make this a successful interaction between myself and my sub.Thank you
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ORDDOM,
Welcome aboard!
When I read your username I took it for granted that you were in the aviation industry. Lol
Many of us tried to not be in control at home one time or another and for one reason or another. If the truth were told it was probably because it is easier to not struggle for control then to constantly be butting heads for no real reason.
The issues arise when this is against our basic nature of who we really are, Dominants and submissive.
Best wishes
Mr Fox
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