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Gentlemen, Salute!
Just wanted to introduce myself. My name is Marco, and I am truly fortunate to have the most wonderful and sexy submissive wife. Her devotion and submission is a new gift every day. We have been married for over 20 years, and in late 2012 we discovered D/s, and since then, we have enjoyed the most rewarding years of our lives. We would really like to find some great D/s friends. Other couples who are on the same journey as we are. Honestly, it is difficult to maintain consistency in practicing D/s without community. I am hopeful that this is site is not just a online community, not that that is not awesome, but I am hoping for some real live community. I have often dreamed of a Dominant Gentlemen’s club where we can gather once a month to drink some fine whisky, smoke a rare cigar, and be entertained by our sexy slaves.
If anyone can advise if there is a way to meet other D/s married couples near us, that would be great. Not sure if that sort of thing is frowned upon on this website, and if so, I apologize in advance. I mean no offense.
Marco
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Hello Sir Marco,
Yes we have gatherings at least once a year if not more. We currently are doing a gathering in New Orleans in October this year. Please look at blog post. Your submissive I hope is registered on my site subMrs.com . She can find all the details there on my blog. Hope to see you both there.
We ask that you please do not solicit publicly here on site for meet ups. If you find friend feel free to mutually agree to privately swap emails ect….
LK
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Hi LK,
Thank you for your reply. I do have two things I need a little more explanation on if you please:
1. I got a welcome message from one of your ambassador’s stating “You can reach out in a forum post just stating where you are located and if there are any others that would like to meet.” which is contradictory to your above statement.
2. I was unaware that women were participating and engaging in conversation with men on this site. This might not seem like a big deal, but it does break with almost all D/s protocol I have run across.
Marco
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Marco,
Welcome to my community…
Thank you for your reply. I do have two things I need a little more explanation on if you please:
Allow me to clarify the questions that you have regarding our communities.
1. I got a welcome message from one of your ambassador’s stating “You can reach out in a forum post just stating where you are located and if there are any others that would like to meet.” which is contradictory to your above statement.
I would need some clarity here myself, as if it were lk’s ambassador that contacted you rather than my own, I would ask if you are aware that you are not allowed to have an membership account on subMrs. If it is actually one of my moderators, a husdom moderator, that sent you that message I am interested in knowing who contacted you with the information. Obviously they are misinformed and I would need to correct the issue to ensure that it doesnt happen again.
If ever in the future you have any difficulty with discerning the meaning of any of our rules or protocols for our communities, it would be advisable to assume that the owner of the community is correct.
Our communities are not hook-up sites and we do not allow for any solicitation.
2. I was unaware that women were participating and engaging in conversation with men on this site. This might not seem like a big deal, but it does break with almost all D/s protocol I have run across.
You should know that I have absolutely zero tolerance for any disrespect toward my lk. I find this statement to exhaust my generosity in the matter.
Our websites are not gender specific as they are role specific. There are several woman Dommes that have accounts on husDOM. And they are always welcome. If you have an issue with woman participating in our community you are in the wrong community.
You should also know that lk owns half of and pays for half of the free service that you are using.
As an owner lk has the ability to moderate anything on either website, as do I. When something that violates our rules and protocols is brought to our attention we take care of it within our respective communities. If it is something on the other community, we look for a moderator of the community to handle the situation for us. If there is no moderator available we will moderate it ourselves. This is how lk moderated your forum post, the one that violated or protocols. I believe that we have the best moderated communities online today. Many kudos to our moderators.
You seem to indicate that your have a lot of D/s community experience and protocol knowledge. With your experience and knowledge I would expect you to appreciate the fact that we take our communities seriously and do not allow for misuse or violated protocols. I would also expect that you wouldn’t have violated one of our protocols yourself.
Allow me to suggest that you familiarize yourself with our rules and protocols. They will give you guidance and allow you to no longer have to reference the ‘almost all D/s protocol I have run across.’ Knowledge is power… https://husdom.com/terms-of-service-community-protocol/
So allow me to leave you with two thoughts of my own.
1) If you break a rule or protocol within our communities, a woman may politely and respectfully, such as my lk did for you, explain the proper protocol and procedure.
2) If you are displeased with our protocols, as they do not appear to be like the others that you have run across in the D/s world, you are always welcome to go back to the places that you value.
If you need more clarity or have anything else that you would like to discuss, you can contact me. You have already disrespected my lk, in my own house, you are not to contact her again.
Regards,
Mr Fox
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