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Introductions
Greetings all, my name is Saxon, and my submissive’s name is anise. We’ve been together for 20 years, and we have two teenage daughters.
During those 20 years, we have explored much of BDSM, but allowing my dominant side to come out was something that eluded me. I spent much of that time being a service dom, which was ultimately unsatisfying for both of us.
But much has changed recently for me personally, and I feel ready and confident to explore. The articles I’ve read here speak to me. I’m looking forward to being here.
Saxon
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3 Replies
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I’m not sure what a service Dom is but it doesn’t sound like much fun. 🙂
Welcome! Glad you found us. Looking forward to chatting at some point when my life’s merry-go-round slows down a bit.
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Saxon,
Welcome aboard.
The community as a whole has a way of speaking to many members. It is as though we can relate to one another on a very personal basis.
Best wishes
Mr Fox
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Service Dom:
Everything was for her benefit. I was the vehicle through which she had wonderful experiences. But I received very little out of it, ultimately.She wanted me to be her Dominant badly, and so did I. But I didn’t know how to take up the reins (heh – reins). So I went through the motions, being the chivalrous gentleman, putting her needs above and before mine. That turned into habit, and that was a tough rut to get out of.
That’s a bad place to be.
And not where we are, anymore.
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