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  • Hello Everyone!

    Posted by mac25 on at

    Hello,

    I am new to this lifestyle, but my wife has been in other D/s relationships before. I have been wanting to do this for awhile, but my biggest worry has been physically hurting my wife. I think this site will really help me understand how to accomplish what I am wanting.

    Thanks,
    Mac25

    husdom replied 7 years, 8 months ago 3 Members · 2 Replies
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  • Unknown Member

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    Howdy Mac, glad you found us. I’m 6’4 and 250. My sub is 5’2 so she says. I’m thinking maybe 4’11. 🙂

    I’ve not broken her yet. It did take me a while to get past the mind set that she wanted a bit of pain and of course grew up as Men don’t hit Women. And we don’t.

    However, the application of a flogger or hand spanking when in play and in an erotic manner, is another thing. It’s consensual and she loves it. She cums hard when I apply a bit of pain. I an not a true sadist. I enjoy giving her pleasure but I don’t want to beat her ass just to get my rocks off. I just play her like a guitar.

    I had to separate what is consensual fun from true violence if that makes any sense.

    Enjoy the ride.

  • husdom

    Administrator
    at

    Mac25,

    Welcome aboard…

    Being a Dominant doesnt mean that you simply know everything. Be sure to ask your submissive many questions along your journey in downtime, as she will be a wealth of information. Since she has already experienced being a submissive before she should be comfortable with knowing and articulating what it is that she desires.

    Best wishes,

    Mr Fox

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