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Confused
Hello all,
My name is Dale, my wife and I have been trying off and on to have this kind of lifestyle 24/7 for a number of years. But it seems as tho life always gets in the way, or I get bored with it, or frustrated because even tho she wants this kind of relationship, she is so headstrong, she cant stop being so domineering, for lack of a better word.
I am at my wits end and am hoping I can learn something here, I sent her the submrs url so she can join and chat with the ladies also. -
5 Replies
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Dale,
Welcome to aboard,
I can understand your frustration for certain. This lifestyle can appear as an illusion at times, without proper perspective.
You have found a wonderful community that shares your sentiment and can provide support along your journey.
Most members find great value having their submissives participate in subMrs.
Best wishes,
Mr Fox
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Welcome. Glad you found us. You might ask her if this is what she really wants. Perhaps it is not truly. If that’s the case, you will continue to bang your head against the wall.
I’ve heard the definition of insanity is repeating the same actions with the expectations of different results each time.
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I’m in the same place, she is so in charge while I’m gone, that when I return she has a hard time letting go of ” the power” her words. That I have to take a step back when I get home and give her time to except my presents, as well as the things I have brought her from my travels. Best wishes and hope to see you in the chats.
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I know this is old but I really have the same issues over and over for the last 2 years and I can tell ya the emotional let down I feel after it had failed again is huge and one of my biggest hurdles to over come. I haven’t figured out how just yet and need the same amount of help. Best wishes in your journey.
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Welcome, Dale!
I am also new to this lifestyle. I have been married to my flower for 16 years now. Unfortunately she has had to run things and manage much of life for most of those years and has those old habits still. She is trying to break them but it is difficult, despite the fact she wants to.
If there is any way I can help I will be happy to do so!
Best wishes,
Bear
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