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The loss of creativity…
So my screen name is Max. My better half and I have been together for 4 1/2 years. We have children, so as I’m sure some of you can relate, it can be very difficult to find time for her and I. We have been actively exploring different D/s scenarios and situations for a good year and a half. We actually became interested after watching a documentary on NF. FSOG also may have helped. If I were to imagine myself Dominant I guess what I would envision is the fresh dressed, perfectly tailored two-piece suit wearing, with a bit of authority to go hand in hand. Unfortunately, that’s not who I am most of the day. Don’t get me wrong, I’d like to think of myself as a degree of alpha but in reality, in my everyday life, the only authority I exert is that from the position of just “regular dude”. Although, I do have a fond appreciation for calamari and expensive wines if that makes a difference. Now I know there are so many things I wish to learn and to be able to express and exhibit but finding the time to learn all of it and apply it to my situation can be quite demanding. Anyways, I’m sure I will get to speak with some of you and if you have any questions, suggestions or so on, I’ll be around.
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Max321,
Welcome a board…
There are very few people, if any at all, here on husDOM that are eating caviar and flying in private planes. Regardless that does not define D/s-M.
However, there are no ‘regular dudes’ here either…
Stick around here for a little bit and that statement will make perfect sense to you.
I look forward to chatting with you soon.
Best wishes,
Mr Fox
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It’s not the suit, it’s the man inside. However the suit makes my sub very wet. 🙂
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I don’t even slightly self identify as what many people would call an “alpha male.” From what I’ve learned, part of the fun of D/s can sometimes involve a role reversal for people. I would say, don’t worry about the labels and stereotypes, you’re about to go on your own journey, completely unique to you and your relationship with your sub. Welcome to the site!
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Don’t let movies or TV define it for you. Simply put, it is gaining trust of your submissive, caring for your submissive, and driving her development forward and all that it means. To give you an idea, in scenes, I wear jeans to start. And I don’t own a 3-piece suit. But I let her know (and she agrees) that I care for her and will keep her close to me at all times. What you do past there is the fun part.
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