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57 and getting younger
After having a huge spat with my wife about how she doesn’t want me drinking in bars without her (even though I as if she will go with me almost every time) and her extreme jealousy of me while I beg to have sex with her, maybe 6-8 times a year for the last 20 years, it all came to a head. I stopped going to bars without her but I quickly assume the roll as her Sexually Dominate Spouse, something I frankly didn’t know I had in me! I just kind of happened and when I realized she needed to be submissive as much as I needed to dominate her, an astonishing thing happened. She use to complain and downgrade me, now she wouldn’t dare attempt to. I use to ask her for sex just to here her say no. I don’t ask anymore I just take her and move her where I want her and she cooperates. I don’t allow the petty games she use to play anymore and our relationship is somehow blossoming.
25 years of marriage to just now find this out. I wish I were still younger because I’ve discovered that being a Dom is not easy work. In fact it can be down right tiring!
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8 Replies
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Welcome. My story similar to yours. 25 years in as well. You are going to like it here.
If you so choose, there is a companion site for submissives calls http://www.submrs.com where she can learn and grow as well.
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Yeah I saw thanks you! It’s totally opposite from where we were just a month ago.
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Oh and all these years of Baby Girl reading romance novels and the Fifty Shades books and all I had to do is step up! This discover is almost unreal!
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forcefully yours,
Welcome aboard!
It has amazed many of us that all we had to do was step up…
Best wishes,
Mr Fox
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So it’s opposite of a month ago. Now the real work starts. It’s up to you both but more on you to keep it going. So many of us here have had the same story.
I’m new into this as well.
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I will. This weekend was amazing! Everything going well so far. I think well is an understatement when it involves her total attitude toward me as her man. Morning routine started today.
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We had a weekend trip with all our family. Getting back last night, I had to take steps to get us fully back into the dynamic. I knew this was going to have to happen. So, I prepared for it.
For starters we had downtime on the way home. This allowed us to clear the air of any potential issues that happened during the weekend concerning family. She and I did rather well overall.
What I did last night, basically inspected her rear end. I had left some bruises on her rear from a spanking on Thursday night. I wanted to inspect and see how they were doing. It was not something she was wanting to do necessarily as she was reading her book at the time. But I made her stop roll over and let me inspect as a way of asserting my dominance and getting her back into the proper mindset
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forcefullyhers – Welcome to both the website and the lifestyle. Now the real work begins to sustain and reinforce this new turn in your relationship.
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