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New Member
Hello:
I have been interested in BDSM and Dominant for most of my life. I have been married to my wonderful Bride for 14 years. We fought for control early in our marriage and my Bride finally let me lead the family. I want her to be sexually submissive also. We have discussed it and played a little but she does not really want to submit. I may introduce her to SubMrs and a few other sites. I am hoping to learn ways to move her along the Journey to where we are both comfortable in what is right for us.
Dave t
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6 Replies
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Hi, sounds like your taking the first steps, I’m a newbie at the D/s relationship, but it’s an amazing journey, continuously evolving as we move forward.
I would recommend you introducing your wife to SubMrs, my Cleo finds it invaluable, they recently did a kneeling challenge which we now do once a week, it keeps her into her submissive lifestyle.
Go into the chat rooms, advise your wife to do the same.
However the D/s world isn’t for everyone, be prepared if she doesn’t want to join it.
Anything I can help you with just let me know, send me a message.
Best regards
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Dave T,
Welcome. We also started with intimacies and it naturally expanded outside the bedroom. It seems it is a natural progression that many follow.
Best Regards
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Dave T,
Welcome aboard,
Communication is always paramount in any relationship but with her hesitation regarding her willingness to submit be extra vigilant with the communication process.
Best wishes,
Mr Fox
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Dave T.
Good to have you here. The advice about having your wife check out subMrs is dead on. It has helped my sweetlove immensely and in ways that would have taken me forever to accomplish if we had not had the help and support of others. Sl is a bit hesitant with submission as well but by giving her time and space to grow, she is rapidly taking on the submissive mindset and progressing nicely. I will suggest that D/s begins with her submission and I also encourage you to be patient until she comes to the point of asking for your dominance. To try to begin D/s without her really wanting your dominance can quickly lead to resentment. And, as mentioned, D/s isnt for everyone. Be patient.
Best wishes,Thanatoi
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Be careful what you wish. That woman will eventually start wearing you out! Take your time and be steady, consistent and unflappable. She will come around.
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Dave T reporting back:
On Friday we had a “Submissive Date”. I asked her to wear some stockings and a corset I bought her back at Christmas that she had not worn yet. I gave her other instructions as well in a written note. She seemed to enjoy the note and did follow the instructions. She really got into it and was Hot and ready to go. She even said that she felt Sexy wearing the outfit. She has not worn stockings for 11+ years. I promised no bondage but I did have her kneeling and I gave her a good spanking. It was a fabulous night. I had to leave the next day for Europe but I plan to have some “downtime” when I get home to discuss the night with her. I am thankful for what I have and I am hoping for more.
Best Regards,
Dave
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