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Good Evening,
I am new to this site. My wife and I met and initially started with a CDD relationship, but it was obvious that we wanted more. We quickly gravitated to a DOM/sub relationship…and marriage, and have been doing this about 3 years now. I am here seeking to improve our relationship (DOM/sub) even further.
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Well, first off Bulldog, may i be the first to say Welcome and Thank you Sir for joining our ranks. We are a close knit community and we are all here to help each other any way we can. This site has been invaluable to me, as I am sure it will be to you. All of the resources are at your fingertips. The ladies at Submrs.com will be of a great help to your sub. So once again welcome aboard and we are glad to have you
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I’m quite new here as well. I’ve learned a lot here in a very short time. Welcome.
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Bulldog,
Welcome aboard!
Would you consider going to the forum and writing something brief about what CDD is as to help educate the other members. I will be happy to add a link from your introduction to the thread after completion.
There is no pressure involved in my request. You are a new member and may not be comfortable enough to participate on that level yet and that I understand.
Remember that links outside of husDOM™ are not permitted as per the TOS so the thread would have to be in your own words.
Best wishes,
Mr Fox
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Mr. Fox,
I certainly would not mind presenting an overview of CDD. However, I doubt it would be very brief. You see I am a analytical sort. Asking me to be “brief” would be like you asking me to paint half of your house.In addition, I would never wish to offend (terms of service) regarding what I see as the biblical basis for my belief. I will prepare a (somewhat) brief explanation, but will wait until you have reviewed and responded to this message before posting.
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Bulldog,
What I am asking for is your impression of what the lifestyle is. There will be many members that are unfamiliar with the CDD lifestyle and will be asking themselves what you meant by it.
The only thing that would violate the TOS is if you were to reference other sources in your post.
You are welcome to send the post to me personally to ensure that we are on the same page.
Best wishes,
Mr Fox
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During my brief introduction after joining this site I stated that my wife (now) and I had started out with a CDD relationship, but quickly found that we were both seeking something more. I further related that our relationship had fairly quickly evolved into more of a Dom/sub relationship…and marriage. I was asked by Mr. Fox to explain a CDD relationship in the forum. Please understand that my relationship with my beloved is a bit past the following explanation. Although there are certain tenets we hold to dearly, our relationship on some levels is probably closer to DOM/sub.
First, I wish to be very clear that I am not an authority on the subject. My metamorphosis from “vanilla” to where I am now involved a series of events. When my beloved and I compared, she seemed to have been on a slightly different but intersecting path. To be clear, I would never wish to violate the terms of service. My explanation is informational only. I do not wish to offend or proselytize in any way.
Christian Domestic Discipline or CDD, has as its core belief that the man is head of the household, as Jesus Christ is head of the church. The “church” I refer to is not a physical place (building) but rather the congregation or “flock”. I am responsible for the religious leadership in my home. Therefore as head of my household I have a responsibility for everything that goes on in my home. That includes the actions of my beloved… or my children. I personally include that to mean anyone under my roof. I am accountable to my God for my actions…and theirs.
Certainly within CDD practitioners, there is great variation. Generally speaking if my beloved did something that she should not have, and certainly something that put her at risk, then I must be responsible to discipline her. This usually means spanking, but there is a plethora of different ideas on what constitutes discipline. Again, generally speaking I am to direct her actions (tasks for the day). However, this does not mean that I can be a tyrant. I am ultimately still accountable to my God for my actions. Too often I have seen this type of person within the ranks of CDD forums. I am to provide for my beloved’s needs, and provide a stable home environment. If the home environment is not going well, it is my responsibility…and my responsibility to correct.
I see all domestic relationships on a continuum. On the one end we have “vanilla”. On the other end HARD CORE BDSM. If we are honest, somewhere on this continuum we could each find our “spot” that fits us.
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