Tagged: Dominant rituals
- October 15, 2014 at 3:02 am #5448My gg’s SirParticipantBasic | Dominant
For me words are a source of power…
That is the first step I took with My gg when we chose to take this journey together.
For me a woman that will submit to you is the strongest you will find. My gg has never seen herself in the light that I see her. From the day we met I was smitten.
Her submission came in roundabout ways. Making time for me, calling me mid afternoon to make sure I was ok. This woman looked out for me from day one and always has done in one way or another. Even when things fell through and were at their worst for us. She was concerned and centered on me.
At the same time I was focused on her and wanted nothing more than to wrap her in my arms and guard her from the world…
And then I thought of words..
I wanted her to truly understand how her Sir saw her.
This was our first step into the D/s lifestyle. I will admit I am a romantic at heart but I think that makes the best Dominant. Just my opinion….
So I directed her…
I told her to write ten words. Five that she liked about her body, and five that she liked about herself unrelated to her body.
Once she emailed them to me I gave her a list of ten on each side and told her to choose five words from each side of our combined lists.
I won’t go into the words that My gg chose as that is private and between us.
Here’s the crux…
The five that she chose from the list unrelated to her body I told her to write every day beneath her left breast over her heart. These are the things about her that we love and are immutable…the core of her being and everything to cherish…the five related to her body she writes beneath her right breast…these are mutable and changeable..not all that important but part of her.
Every morning My gg is to write these words just where Sir says and send a picture….
Every morning I receive a text full of joy and empowerment….
It goes something along the lines of…
“I’m about to write my words Sir, thank you.”
She feels strength in the words we’ve chosen…They carry her though her day and build her in fact….What more could a Dom ask for?
- October 15, 2014 at 2:06 pm #5450sirParticipantBasic | Dominant
My gg’s Sir,
WOW, what a great post.
I love this idea! It is very subtle, yet very powerful? I will have My Liite Trooper do this task. This is a great way to keep her in the right mind set all day as well as buld her self-esteem. I look forward to having many discussions with you.
- October 15, 2014 at 3:36 pm #5451
My gg’s Sir,
This is one of the most romantic purposefully posts in the forum to date. I really enjoy the essence and thoughtfulness of the ritual.
My initial thought was how difficult it would be to write upside down and backwards on your own chest… Lol…
However, I always offer caution to any ‘everyday’ ritual such as this.
What is she going to use to write on herself with that will wash off and allow her to write again in the same place the following morning?
- October 15, 2014 at 4:14 pm #5452My Darlings SirParticipantBasic | Dominant
Crayola makes a great washable marker that comes off easily when washed. Sometimes to easily as it also comes off when sweat, lube or spit are rubbed on the writing area.
Thank you for your great post gg’s Sir.
My Darlings Sir
- October 16, 2014 at 9:55 am #5457
Thank you for the wonderful tip…
The smearing of the marker with sweat lube and rubbing may just add to the ‘hotness’ during play for myself…
- October 16, 2014 at 1:16 pm #5458My Darlings SirParticipantBasic | Dominant
Indeed the smearing adds to the “hotness” of the play. Although, I have to tell you, red marker when smeared down the inner thigh of your sub after some rough play can look a lot like blood and freak you out for a moment. Thought I was going to have to do some explaining to the police at the ER for a second there. Keep that in mind when choosing your colors. I use blue and green most of the time now.
- October 16, 2014 at 8:27 pm #5462
Red may fit the bill as a mind-fuck scenario…
- October 18, 2014 at 9:26 am #5476Lord FreyrParticipantBasic | Dominant
You just gave me the best laugh of my night so far. Thank you for explaining your situation with humour and aplomb.
Warmest, Kindess and Most Thoughtful Regards,
- October 15, 2014 at 11:00 pm #5453My gg’s SirParticipantBasic | Dominant
Thanks for the kind words everyone.
Mr. Fox, My gg is currently using a basic felt tip marker. This is working well as the marker tends to fade or rub off by bedtime. Failing that it scrubs off when she bathes in the morning leaving a clean slate for that days application.
My gg’s Sir
- September 9, 2018 at 8:04 am #71356StillParticipantPremium Content | Through the Eyes of a husDOM™
Going Over old posts to gain some much needed knowledge is like mining for gold. I have learned so much even though I have not commented on all posts I have read this one speaks to me. This is what I think my sweet Terenya needs to help with her self view.
- December 14, 2019 at 9:34 am #74507widewedgeParticipantBasic | Dominant
In the beginning was the word. Words are our power deliver them carefully use them brillently. Love that she provided the words.
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