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    • #70516
      havocblaid
      Participant

      So after our discussion on toys I was going through the forums and realized there was no real starter kit for all the people new to the dynamic. So I figured I would start one.
      So please put down what you believe would be a good toy starter kit for someone just beginning their journey.
      For me this would be the following-
      Blindfold
      Cuffs or restraints
      A wand
      A vibe
      And a flogger (if impact play is an interest at the time of course)

    • #70518
      Bearcat
      Participant

      Very nice topic
      For me it was
      Crop
      Blindfold
      Dildo
      Wand
      rope (be cautious start small) hemp preferably if not be careful with cotton

    • #70521
      Mister.D
      Participant

      Definitely a great topic. Agree on not overwhelming too soon. For me:
      Cuffs
      A few 6′ soft ropes
      Regular vibe (have since graduated to the wand)
      Remote control vibrator

    • #70523
      Bee Keeper
      Participant

      Great question. For me in the beginning it was

      Blindfold
      Cuffs
      Wand
      Remote vibe
      Flogger

    • #70524
      Silver Fox
      Participant

      All nice lists…I would add nipple clamps(even if they are just clothes pins)

    • #70525
      Mr. Cain/AMB
      Moderator

      Not only is this a great topic, but it provides some very useful basics for new Doms trying to find their way. Buying quality toys can be expensive, especially when you are still testing likes and dislikes…it can be a challenge. Silver Fox’s suggestion about the clothes pins as nipple clamps is a perfect example of what V and I call “pervertables”. We used to make a day out of finding every day items that we could use in playtime. Some examples we used were:
      1. My hand (always perfect for spanking)
      2. Neck ties (for blindfold or restraint)
      3. A small wooden or plastic cutting board (for impact)
      4. A paddle ball paddle, minus the ball (for impact)

      Don’t forget about atmosphere:
      1. Candles to set the mood of the room (regular candles should only be for lighting, not skin as they can burn badly).
      2. Music (to really set the mood you are looking for).

      Although long since retired since V and I have moved on to having more quality equipment, I will show you guys some of our first “pervertables” that we had fun with in the beginning.


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    • #71984
      Minos
      Participant

      We started out with a blindfold, several scarves, three differently-sized vibrators, and a flogger.

    • #71990
      Sir OTW | AMB
      Participant

      We started out with several vibes, an underbed restraint system with velcro cuffs, and a blind fold…we now have started filling a second drawer with toys and have sex furniture in the closet lol.

    • #73915
      ComN
      Participant

      Blindfold
      Tie(any simple bondage tool)
      Flogger/crop
      Dildo/vibe

    • #74019
      1WickedLush
      Participant

      Heh, 20 some years ago, we started with a cock ring, polyester “silk” scarves, and a Hitachi.

    • #74020
      Sir Hermosa
      Participant

      No matter how much rope, impact, toys etc we play with, one thing is Always there. Nearly every single time.

      Get a very good quality set of cuffs and a matching collar. (And matching ball gag for us 😉 )

      I have never regretted the money spent. We use them almost every day. And have since the day we got them.

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