This topic contains 7 replies, has 8 voices, and was last updated by  Sir OTW | AMB 8 months, 3 weeks ago.

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  • #70516
     havocblaid 
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    So after our discussion on toys I was going through the forums and realized there was no real starter kit for all the people new to the dynamic. So I figured I would start one.
    So please put down what you believe would be a good toy starter kit for someone just beginning their journey.
    For me this would be the following-
    Blindfold
    Cuffs or restraints
    A wand
    A vibe
    And a flogger (if impact play is an interest at the time of course)

  • #70518
     Bearcat 
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    Very nice topic
    For me it was
    Crop
    Blindfold
    Dildo
    Wand
    rope (be cautious start small) hemp preferably if not be careful with cotton

  • #70521
     Mister.D 
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    Definitely a great topic. Agree on not overwhelming too soon. For me:
    Cuffs
    A few 6′ soft ropes
    Regular vibe (have since graduated to the wand)
    Remote control vibrator

  • #70523
     Bee Keeper 
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    Great question. For me in the beginning it was

    Blindfold
    Cuffs
    Wand
    Remote vibe
    Flogger

  • #70524
     Silver Fox 
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    All nice lists…I would add nipple clamps(even if they are just clothes pins)

  • #70525
     Mr. Cain/AMB 
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    Not only is this a great topic, but it provides some very useful basics for new Doms trying to find their way. Buying quality toys can be expensive, especially when you are still testing likes and dislikes…it can be a challenge. Silver Fox’s suggestion about the clothes pins as nipple clamps is a perfect example of what V and I call “pervertables”. We used to make a day out of finding every day items that we could use in playtime. Some examples we used were:
    1. My hand (always perfect for spanking)
    2. Neck ties (for blindfold or restraint)
    3. A small wooden or plastic cutting board (for impact)
    4. A paddle ball paddle, minus the ball (for impact)

    Don’t forget about atmosphere:
    1. Candles to set the mood of the room (regular candles should only be for lighting, not skin as they can burn badly).
    2. Music (to really set the mood you are looking for).

    Although long since retired since V and I have moved on to having more quality equipment, I will show you guys some of our first “pervertables” that we had fun with in the beginning.


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     Minos 
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    We started out with a blindfold, several scarves, three differently-sized vibrators, and a flogger.

  • #71990
     Sir OTW | AMB 
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    We started out with several vibes, an underbed restraint system with velcro cuffs, and a blind fold…we now have started filling a second drawer with toys and have sex furniture in the closet lol.

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