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Taking Control
Hi All!
I’m a 65 year old with a dominate side. I’m fortunate enough to be in a relationship with a 35 year old wonderful woman who loves me dearly as I do her. She’s always had a submissive side while being an outspoken independent woman.
Unfortunately I’ve allowed myself to get wrapped up in some of my long standing issues and squandered valuable time and our sex life in the process. She’s always had a high sex drive and obviously became frustrated. Now she’s sought out a young man to get the sex she’s missing from me including dom sub play. We have a very close wonderful relationship outside of this one issue and we’ve talked about how we arrived at this place in our life together. We are working to understand and grow from it.
I’ve opened my eyes and realized what I’ve got and wish to take control of us and her. She’s willing to play the sub role with me. So here I am, looking forward to learning and growing.Mister Kate
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3 Replies
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Welcome MrKate
There are a few of us here that have had to deal with situations that you would find familiar. It never goes away, but it definitely eases over time.
I think you’ve found the right place to start looking for inspiration. Check out MrFox’s blogs, and keep browsing those forums. I also get the best advice from just chatting with folks in the chat server here. Keeping the fellowship and accountability with other Doms has helped me tremendously.
One step at a time sir. Go slow and look after her needs.
Cheers.
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Hello Mister Kate,
I am new here as well and also looking to learn and grow as a dominant man so I may not be able to offer too much expect for the fact that I think you came to the right place. So far everyone here has been nothing but classy, respectful and kind. They seem to genuinely care about helping me and everyone else that may pass through here to grow into our better and more fulfilled selves. Like Sir Hermosa mentioned, I would read some blogs and search through the forums too, but also hop on the chat if you feel so inclined some time. I have found it nice to ask questions in real time to get some different perspectives.
Welcome to the site good sir. -
Thank you both for your welcoming encouragement! I will take your advise and delve into the many blog posts and hopefully participate soon in your chats. Here’s to growing!
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