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  • nzg78 introduction

    Posted by nzg78 on at

    My wife and I have a strong relationship. She is my best friend and lover. Our relationship has been growing stronger every day since the start. Even with life and children adding complexity and complications, I feel more in love with her each day.

    Up until my wife read Fifty shades of Grey, everything was almost entirely vanilla. Our sex life was OK, but not great. Reading the FSOG-series, and later similar books, she started to understand herself better and understand that she is a submissive by nature. Some time after this discovery she got the courage to explain this to me and ask if I could try to be more dominant in our sex life.

    Understanding the importance in this, I agreed that this was something I could try. The first times felt somewhat awkward, and not entirely natural. I’ve been brought up to be a “nice” guy that respect women. It took a while for me to understand that being nice to my wife meant respecting her need for me to be dominant and for her to be tied up and spanked.

    Over the last year I’ve come to grow into the role and feel that it’s more natural. It’s still confined to our bedroom, but small parts are slowly seeping into our day to day life. Our communication and trust in each other has improved. The sex life has gone from OK, to great.

    Everything about this lifestyle still feels new and there is still much we both feel that we don’t know and want to learn.

    Looking forward to learn from this community.

    Mr.Fox replied 7 years, 6 months ago 2 Members · 1 Reply
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  • Mr.Fox

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    nzg78,

    Up until my wife read Fifty shades of Grey, everything was almost entirely vanilla.

    This was the same catalysts for my D/s-M dynamic as well…

    It’s still confined to our bedroom, but small parts are slowly seeping into our day to day life.

    This echoes our dynamic as well. I would imagine that many here at husDOM™ can relate to this feeling one way or another.

    Best wishes,

    Mr Fox

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